Whose life is it anyway? Every time a bio-pic is attempted the real-life figure decides to step into the picture at the last minute with a long list of demands. So it has happened with Deepa Mehtaâ€™s Heaven On Earth. The real-life wife Aman Deep Kaur , the wife from Punjab who became a victim of spousal abuse after marriage in Toronto, and on whose story of domestic violence Heaven On Earth(HOE) is partly based decided months before release that she needed to have more prominence in the filmâ€™s publicity .
Aghast at the turn of events as this kind of one-woman marketing monopoly was never part of Deepaâ€™s creative strategy for a film on domestic violence, the adamant director knocked off all mention of Aman Deep from the film and advised Preity Zinta who plays the protagonist and other members of the cast to not make any mention of a woman called a Aman.
Ironically the filmâ€™s release was therefore jeopardized by the woman behind the harrowing plot claiming stakes in the project .
But now in a sudden and dramatic move Aman Deep Kaur has decided to declare truce with Deepa Mehta .
Says the relieved filmmaker, â€œWe decided to sit and talk about our problems. Matters have been sorted out with Aman Deep. Now sheâ€™s pleased. Sheâ€™s back being a proud part of our project. And weâ€™re now again free to use her name in the filmâ€™s publicity. My problem with Aman Deepâ€™s claim was that HOE is not ONLY her story. Itâ€™s also the story of another abused wife Mona Gill . Aman Deep refused to accept that HOE was any other womanâ€™s story. She claimed itâ€™s entirely her story. That was nonsense. How could Aman Deep claim the entire plot to be hers when half the film is based on Girish Karnadâ€™s play Naag Mandala? HEO is also the story of hundreds of migrant wives who step into marriages with NRIs without knowing whatâ€™s in store. In fact itâ€™s the story of any arranged marriage.â€
Getting emotional Deepa recollects, â€œ After a private screening in Kolkata, a father came up to me and said , â€˜How can we be sure that when our daughter marries and goes to another home in the same town she wonâ€™t be treated the same way that Preity Zinta is in your film?â€™While the plight of women women in my Water was seen as being too distant from contemporary lifestyles, HEO is ghar ghar ki khani. Domestic violence is not peculiar to any era or culture.â€
Deepaâ€™s main objection was to Aman Deep taking away the credit from the other battered wife Mona Gill.
â€œIâ€™m glad Aman Deep saw my point of view. HEO is also about the importance of mythology to our culture. I didnâ€™t want HEO to be another film about domestic violence. You know , the â€˜Donâ€™t hit me, donâ€™t hit meâ€™ and then, â€˜Iâ€™ll hit you backâ€™ kind of â€˜liberatingâ€™ experience.